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Matthew 19:9

"And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except [it be] for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery."
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The text does NOT say:

  • It does not say that divorce is always an unforgivable sin
  • It does not say that remarriage after a divorce (even for other causes) is continuous adultery
  • It does not address all the complexities of broken relationships or abuse

The text DOES say:

Jesus reaffirms the sanctity of marriage and the seriousness of divorce, allowing an exception for 'porneia.' This verse is not God's only word on the subject, but part of a broader biblical testimony that seeks restoration and grace.

FULL ANALYSIS

1 Biblical text
Λέγω δὲ ὑμῖν ὅτι ὃς ἂν ἀπολύσῃ τὴν γυναῖκα αὐτοῦ μὴ ἐπὶ πορνείᾳ καὶ γαμήσῃ ἄλλην μοιχᾶται, καὶ ἀπολελυμένην γαμήσας μοιχᾶται.
Translit: Legō de hymin hoti hos an apolysē tēn gynaika autou mē epi porneia kai gamēsē allēn moichatai, kai ho apolelymenēn gamēsas moichatai.
2 Common use
This verse is central to the debate on divorce and remarriage in the church. It is often used to establish an almost absolute prohibition of divorce and, especially, remarriage, except in cases of sexual infidelity. Some interpretations use it to argue that remarriage after an unbiblical divorce is a state of continuous adultery, denying the possibility of grace and restoration. It is also used to justify severe ecclesiastical discipline in cases of divorce and remarriage.
3 The problem

Layer 1

The verse is isolated from its immediate context (the discussion with the Pharisees about Mosaic law) and from the broader biblical testimony on marriage, divorce, and grace. It becomes the sole basis for a doctrine, ignoring other teachings of Jesus and Paul.

Layer 2

The interpretation of 'porneia' becomes the turning point, often strictly limiting it to adultery, without considering its potentially broader scope in the Jewish context (incest, illegal marriages, etc.) or implications for abuse. This leads to a legalistic application that does not always reflect the compassion of Christ.

Layer 3

Pastorally, this verse is used to condemn and stigmatize divorced or remarried individuals, denying them full participation in church life, without offering a path of repentance, grace, and restoration. The rule is prioritized over the person.

4 Literary context
Matthew 19:9 is part of a broader discussion of Jesus with the Pharisees about divorce (Matthew 19:3-12). The Pharisees ask if it is lawful to divorce one's wife for any cause, referring to the law of Moses (Deuteronomy 24:1-4). Jesus responds by appealing to creation (Genesis 1:27, 2:24), establishing God's original intention for marriage as an indissoluble union. He then explains Moses' concession as an adaptation to 'the hardness of your hearts' (v.8). Verse 9 is Jesus' application of this principle, with the exception clause. It is crucial to note that Jesus is raising the standard of marriage above the lax interpretations of his time, not necessarily establishing an exhaustive law for all future situations. The disciples themselves find his teaching difficult (v.10).
5 Linguistic analysis
ἀπολύσῃ (apolysē - G630)
To dismiss, send away, divorce.

The verb refers to the legal act of divorce. Jesus is not discussing informal separation, but the legal process of dissolving a marriage, which in the Jewish context was unilateral on the part of the man.

πορνείᾳ (porneia - G4202)
Fornication, sexual immorality, prostitution.

This is the key term. While 'moicheia' (adultery) refers specifically to infidelity within marriage, 'porneia' is a broader term that can include adultery, fornication, incest, prostitution, and other forms of sexual immorality. In the Jewish context, it could refer to illegal marriages according to Mosaic law (e.g., Leviticus 18) or premarital infidelity. The breadth of the term is crucial for interpreting the exception.

μοιχᾶται (moichatai - G3431)
Commits adultery.

The present tense is important. Some argue it implies continuous adultery. However, the present indicative in Greek often describes an action occurring at the time of the statement or a general truth, not necessarily an uninterrupted action. Jesus' emphasis is on the illegitimacy of remarriage in most cases, not on perpetual condemnation that negates grace.

6 Historical context
In Jesus' time, there were two main rabbinic schools on divorce: Hillel (liberal, allowed divorce for 'any cause,' based on Deuteronomy 24:1) and Shammai (conservative, only allowed divorce for sexual immorality). Jesus aligns with the Shammai school but goes further, appealing to the original intention of creation. His teaching was radically counter-cultural, especially for Jewish men who had almost absolute power to divorce. The exception clause ('porneia') is crucial because it recognizes that there are situations where the marriage has already been broken by infidelity or immorality, and legal dissolution is a consequence of that brokenness, not the primary cause.
7 Interpretive perspectives

Patristic

Origen (184-253) interpreted 'porneia' in a relatively broad sense in his Commentary on Matthew (Commentarii in Matthaeum, Book XIV, chs. 16-24; PG 13, cols. 1229-1261), acknowledging that it includes adultery and, in some contexts, other grave forms of sexual immorality; however, his position on remarriage is restrictive: he holds that whoever divorces, even for fornication, and remarries commits adultery, and he criticizes the practice of some bishops who permitted it against the evangelical norm. Augustine of Hippo (354-430) consistently maintained that divorce for fornication is permitted (separation of bed and cohabitation), but that remarriage while the original spouse lives constitutes adultery; he develops this position in De coniugiis adulterinis (CSEL 41) and De nuptiis et concupiscentia, acknowledging pastoral difficulty without relaxing the norm. Basil the Great (329-379) in his Canonical Letters (Epistles 188, 199, and 217, addressed to Amphilochius; PG 32, cols. 664-809) regards remarriage as adultery in principle, but applies a differentiated penitential discipline based on sex and circumstances—especially for the abandoned wife—without fully equating her situation with that of the man who abandons his wife, reflecting significant pastoral nuance. John Chrysostom (347-407) in his Homilies on Matthew (Homily 62, on Mt 19:3-12; PG 58, cols. 595-604) stresses the indissolubility of marriage and the gravity of divorce, accepts the porneia exception as the sole licit cause for separation, but does not endorse remarriage, holding that even one who divorces on legitimate grounds and contracts a new marriage is not entirely free from moral reproach.

Reformed

Calvin, following Augustine, affirmed that divorce is lawful for adultery, but remarriage is problematic. However, the Reformed tradition has held diverse positions, with some allowing remarriage for the innocent party in cases of adultery or desertion (following 1 Corinthians 7). The tension arises in balancing the sanctity of marriage with grace for those who have failed or been victimized.

Interpretive tension: Tension arises when trying to harmonize Jesus' teaching in Matthew with Paul's instructions in 1 Corinthians 7 regarding desertion. If Matthew's 'porneia' is the only exception, how is the Pauline exception integrated? The Reformed tradition has often extended the exception to include desertion, which requires a theological inference beyond the literalness of Matthew 19:9, or a broader interpretation of 'porneia'.

Arminian

Wesley and the Arminian tradition also emphasize the sanctity of marriage and the seriousness of divorce. Generally, they recognize the exception for 'porneia' and, like the Reformed tradition, often incorporate the Pauline exception of desertion (1 Corinthians 7:15). The tension focuses on how to apply grace and forgiveness to those who have divorced and remarried outside these exceptions, seeking a balance between Christ's law and his compassion.

Interpretive tension: Tension arises when applying grace and forgiveness to situations of divorce and remarriage that do not fit perfectly into the explicit exceptions. Is remarriage 'continuous adultery' that prevents full communion, or does God's grace cover repentance and allow for a new life? The Arminian system seeks to emphasize the capacity for repentance and restoration but must grapple with the strength of Jesus' statement.

Contemporary

Scholars like David Instone-Brewer argue that 'porneia' in the first-century Jewish context was a broad term that included not only adultery but also other violations of marriage law (e.g., incest, illegal marriages, or even financial infidelity or abuse that broke the covenant). This would broaden the basis for a 'biblical' divorce. Others, like Gordon Fee, emphasize the primacy of 1 Corinthians 7 to address the pastoral realities of divorce and remarriage, seeking a more compassionate and grace-centered application. N.T. Wright also emphasizes that Jesus is raising the standard of marriage to its creation ideal, not creating a new legalistic law, and that the context of 'hardness of heart' is crucial.

8 Exegetical conclusion

DOES NOT SAY: Array

Jesus reaffirms the sanctity and permanence of marriage as a God-created union, where two become one flesh. Divorce is a deviation from this divine ideal, permitted by Moses due to the hardness of the human heart. Jesus allows a single exception for divorce: 'porneia' (sexual immorality). In such cases, remarriage is considered adultery. However, this verse is not God's only word on the subject, nor an exhaustive law for all situations. **The Ignored Testimony:** This verse, when used in isolation, ignores the permission for divorce in Mosaic law (Deuteronomy 24:1-4), the Pauline exception for desertion by an unbelieving spouse (1 Corinthians 7:15), and the general principle of God's grace and forgiveness for all sins, including those related to broken marriage. By focusing solely on the prohibition, the perspective of restoration and divine compassion is lost.

Legitimate debate centers on the breadth of 'porneia' (only adultery or a broader range of sexual immorality, including illegal marriages or severe abuse?) and how to harmonize Jesus' teaching with Paul's in 1 Corinthians 7:15 (the exception for desertion). There is also debate on whether remarriage after an 'unbiblical' divorce constitutes 'continuous adultery' or if God's grace covers repentance for the initial act of divorce/remarriage.

9 How to preach it well
First — Preach God's ideal, not just the exception. Jesus starts with Genesis, not Deuteronomy. Marriage is a sacred covenant, a one-flesh union. This is the starting point for all teaching on the subject.

Second — Acknowledge the 'hardness of heart.' Jesus understands that we live in a fallen world. Moses' law was a concession. Do not use this verse to add impossible burdens on people who are already broken or have been victims of sin. Jesus' compassion is evident.

Third — Explore 'porneia' honestly. Do not restrict it arbitrarily. Consider its Jewish context and the implications of a deep breach of the marriage covenant. Allow the text to speak for itself in its breadth, without imposing modern or narrow definitions.

Fourth — Integrate the complete biblical testimony. Do not preach Matthew 19:9 without 1 Corinthians 7:15. The Bible is not a book of isolated laws, but a narrative of redemption and grace that unfolds. Paul's teaching is an inspired application of Jesus' principles to concrete pastoral situations.

Fifth — Offer grace and restoration. For those who have experienced divorce or remarriage, the church should be a place of healing, not perpetual condemnation. Repentance is possible, and God's grace is sufficient to cover all sins. The goal is Christlikeness, which includes compassion and forgiveness.
10 Documented errors
  • Building a rigid doctrine on divorce and remarriage based solely on Matthew 19:9, ignoring 1 Corinthians 7:15.

    Origin: Legalistic traditions, some conservative denominations | Layer 1
  • Denying the possibility of remarriage for the innocent party in cases of adultery or desertion, even after repentance.

    Origin: Ultra-conservative interpretations | Layer 2
  • Stigmatizing or condemning divorced or remarried individuals, denying them grace and full participation in church life.

    Origin: Popular pastoral, some churches | Layer 3
  • Interpreting 'commits adultery' as a state of continuous adultery that cannot be forgiven by God's grace.

    Origin: Legalistic interpretations | Layer 2
  • Ignoring the Jewish cultural context of 'porneia' and its possible breadth, limiting it only to consummated adultery.

    Origin: Superficial exegesis | Layer 1

IF YOU ARE PREACHING THIS TEXT

  • Do not use this verse to condemn, but to teach God's ideal and the need for grace.
  • Always integrate 1 Corinthians 7:15 into your teaching on divorce and remarriage.
  • Acknowledge the pastoral complexity and pain of people who have experienced divorce.
  • Do not define 'porneia' restrictively without considering the Jewish context and other possible interpretations.
  • Emphasize God's grace and forgiveness for those who repent, even in the context of broken marriages.

RECOMMENDED RESOURCES

DA
Divorce and Remarriage in the Church: Biblical Solutions for Pastoral Dilemmas

David Instone-Brewer

A deep study of 'porneia' and the Jewish context, offering a broader perspective on biblical exceptions.

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The First Epistle to the Corinthians

Gordon D. Fee

Exegetical analysis of 1 Corinthians 7, crucial for complementing Matthew's teaching on divorce.

JA
Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage in the Bible: A Fresh Look at What the Scriptures Say

Jay E. Adams

A conservative perspective that seeks to be pastorally sensitive and coherent with the text.

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Divorce and Remarriage: A Redemptive Theology

Ruben Z. P. Kaufmann

A theological exploration emphasizing grace and redemption in the context of divorce, seeking a pastoral balance.